9/11 Tribute- Vivian Casalduc
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This is Vivian:
That’s a smile I’d love to have seen in person. Vivian was a mother. Vivian was a (young) grandmother. Vivian lived for her family- and baked gingerbread at Christmas. Vivian is not a statistic.
Vivian was a – a daughter and Grandmother- Vivian was a Mom- just like me.
Vivian Casalduc, 45, New York, N.Y., USA microfiche clerk, Empire Blue Cross/Blue Shield Confirmed dead, World Trade Center, at/in building
Doesn’t tell you much does it? I did some research—- there was so much more to Vivian.
People lovingly created quilt squares in Vivian’s memory. Another blogger- Alex Ortiz- has written a Memorial post.
According to her Memory Quilt square- her motto was
“Do everything, The Hard Way” Gotta love a woman with a motto like that. It could be mine.
I found another memorial for Vivian
here. That’s where I learned that Vivian was colorful. I can relate. Ocassionally wearing a
blue wig to work… just to mix things up a bit. (I’ve never worn a blue wig— but you never know) Vivian wore clothes like art. Her clothes were a method of expression. Again- I can relate.
I also learned that Vivian was a single mom of 3 kids. (now adults) Vivian did the best that she could and she did it well. Vivian left so much behind.
I can’t help but wonder, what has Vivian missed? Maybe weddings- maybe funerals- days at the office. Colorful wigs and colorful clothes. Maybe Vivian missed her children’s milestones- or her 5 grandchildren’s. Maybe Vivian even missed the births of more grandchildren- it’s been 5 years. It’s possible.
I wonder about the many things that Vivian may have missed- but I do not wonder at all, whether Vivian, herself- is missed.
She is. By her family, by her friends co-workers of 15 years…..and now, by us- those who never had the priviledge of knowing her-
We remember—-
Vivian Casalduc
Dear Lord- I pray for the family of Vivian- I pray for you to comfort them and wrap your arms around them- giving them the hugs they must miss so desperately from Vivian. I pray for all the 9/11 victims friends and family- that these tributes would help them in their grief.
I pray Lord- for those in the service- fighting even now- against terrorism, please give them strength, lead them in honor, and bring them home safe. Be with their families who are missing them, Lord. I pray for our world leaders- that you would give them wisdom, and courage to stop terrorism. I love you Lord- please heal our hearts- but help us—never forget- amen.
Sundays post is up at The Christian Women Online Blog that I also write for;) Stop by for a visit. Scroll down for my I remember post….
September 8, 2006 at 10:43 pm
You know we get so desensitized that we forget these victims had families, friends, lives. We must never forget.
I think this tribute is just wonderful. I hope many people will carry this on.
September 9, 2006 at 4:59 am
You showed me Vivian in a way I wouldn’t ever have known her. Thank you for celebrating her life so well.
The 2996 project is a great idea. I was proud to be a part of it. And I am even more proud after reading your heart-touching tribute to Vivian.
September 9, 2006 at 6:23 am
Wow! Blue wigs! That is a great smile. Good job on the tribute. Thank you.
September 10, 2006 at 6:14 am
wonderful tribute……
wonderful
September 10, 2006 at 7:57 pm
Wow – what a beautifully well-done tribute.
September 11, 2006 at 2:51 am
A wonderful tribute. A horrible day. I did a tribute too for a firefighter who lost his life that day.
September 11, 2006 at 7:42 pm
Yes – being a part of the 2996 project has been an incredible journey and really brought meaning to these victims. Instead of a name and number it has become so personal. Thank you for a wonderful tribute!
April 30, 2015 at 2:41 am
I have recently met 2 of vivians children, and yes she has left alot behind a beautiful young lady full of joy and love, and a brilliant man. May god always bless them and may have all there dreams and wishes forefilled.
September 11, 2015 at 1:38 pm
Vivian 14 year later I still think of you when we work at 75 Front St.
I miss you love Jimmy Ramos
January 6, 2018 at 5:54 pm
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September 11, 2022 at 1:55 pm
Thank you for this beautiful tribute for my grandma i am one of the 5 grandchildren 🥰
She has in need such a bigger and beautiful family since the years have gone on, she has even more 3 more grand children & loving great grand children. Her memory is never forgotten and always remember daily with photos and conversations! especially reading the words you all have for her 🥰
She was a beautiful soul with a heart of gold and i miss her deeply. Thank you again & rest in heavenly peace grandma Viv well keep your memory alive as we have been 💜